
Travis Kelce and Taylor Swift shocked the world when they went public with their romance in September 2023, but according to one of Kelce’s next-door neighbors, their relationship was already well underway months before the public caught wind of it.
Reality TV star Wes Bergmann, who lives in Kelce’s Leawood, Kansas, neighborhood, recently opened up about what he knew regarding the NFL star’s relationship timeline with Swift. During an appearance on the Social Game Podcast, Bergmann revealed that he had tried to tell people that Kelce and Swift were an item long before the relationship became public—but no one believed him.
“I was like the first person to know about any of this stuff,” Bergmann claimed.
“I tried to tell [host Michele Fitzgerald] a long time ago. I was like, ‘They’re together, just so you know’ … but she didn’t believe me.”
Early Speculation and Doubts About Kelce-Swift Romance
Bergmann recalled that Fitzgerald had been skeptical, largely because Swift had traditionally been linked to musicians and artists rather than professional athletes.
“She didn’t believe it. She was like, ‘She only goes for artists,’” he said.
“I beat the validating of her showing up to games and stuff by like six months.”
While Swift’s past relationships have often involved brooding, creative types, Fitzgerald pointed out that Kelce seemed like a different type of partner, describing him as a “chivalrous, all-American football player” rather than Swift’s typical “scrawnier” artist-type exes.
However, Bergmann strongly disagreed, insisting that Kelce, despite being a 6-foot-5, 250-pound tight end, is essentially “the boy next door.”
“He’s an enigma—on one hand, he’s like this big, tough football player,” Bergmann said.
“On the other, he’s going to have about 12 Taylor Swift songs written about him.”
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Did Bergmann Actually See Kelce and Swift Together?
While Bergmann was adamant that he knew about the relationship before it became public, it remains unclear how much of his information came from personal observation versus local rumors. He never explicitly stated whether he had personally seen Kelce and Swift together or if he had just heard whispers around town before the romance was confirmed.
Bergmann first revealed that Kelce moved into his Leawood neighborhood in November 2023, several months after his relationship with Swift was already public. However, Kelce had already made real estate moves before then.
Kelce’s Home Purchase and Unintended Doppelgänger Moment
In October 2023, Kelce purchased a $6 million mansion in Leawood, Kansas, a move widely believed to be in response to his growing fame and increased privacy concerns. The home is roughly 30 minutes away from his previous $1 million residence in Kansas City’s exclusive Briarcliff West neighborhood.
Bergmann also shared a hilarious personal story about being mistaken for Kelce while driving in the gated community.
“The paparazzi snapped me, and they thought I was Travis Kelce,” he revealed on the Feb. 5 episode of Rob Has a Podcast.
“The pictures were published online.”
Bergmann jokingly added that, due to his resemblance to the football star, he is apparently Kelce’s doppelgänger.
How It All Began: Kelce and Swift’s Relationship Timeline
While no one knows exactly when Kelce and Swift first connected, their relationship became public knowledge in late September 2023, when Swift made a high-profile appearance at one of Kelce’s Kansas City Chiefs games.
The dating rumors had started months earlier, when Kelce attempted to shoot his shot with Swift in July 2023 after attending her Eras Tour concert in Kansas City. Kelce famously tried—and failed—to give Swift a friendship bracelet with his phone number on it, a story that later caught her attention and reportedly helped spark their eventual romance.
Now, with their relationship continuing to thrive in the spotlight, Bergmann’s claims add an interesting layer to the story, suggesting that some people knew about Swift and Kelce’s connection long before the world did.
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